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P1060692Lately, (and by lately I mean over the past several months) I’ve been trying to simplify my life. It’s not that my life is overly complicated by most people’s standards (it’s really not). It’s mainly that I find new and exciting ways to complicate things unnecessarily. I will stress and worry to ridiculous extents, and in the absence of things to worry about, I will make up things to worry about.

I used to lay awake for hours worrying about stuff that hadn’t even happened yet. I am good at driving myself crazy with What-If and Worst-Case scenarios. I’m also really good at beating myself up, and finding creative reasons to consider myself a failure and/or loser.
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Another Tuesday, another 5-minute deleted scene to enjoy. A few people have asked, so I will clarify:  As far as I know, the Rizzoli & Isles character twitter accounts are run by TNT. I don’t know who at TNT. Maybe the show’s writers. It is not a fan-run thing and it’s not written by the actresses themselves.

Now that we’re all on the same page, on we go! Last night @JaneRizzoli and @MauraIsles went dress shopping. I like to call this scene: Two Girls, One Dressing Room.

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…but I won’t.

The truth is that I’m testing out Windows Live Writer. I usually use BlogDesk but I decided to throw caution to the wind and try updating my blog using a totally different blogging client.

I know, I know. You’re thinking, “Ingrid, that’s wild. What ever will you think of next!?”

It’s true. Keeping up this lifestyle of uninhibited adventure is a challenge but one that I’m determined to take on time and time again. I mean, just earlier I added a new WP plugin that lets me add footnotes. [1. I don’t usually have a lot to say about feet. But it might come in handy sometimes.]

I do enjoy living on the edge.

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Episode 64 kicks off with Julia and Alma sitting on a couch, T-A-L-K-I-N-G. Julia is confused about her confusion regarding the decision she finally made. You know, the one in which she decided between Mariana and Armando by choosing them both.

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Even though Julia starts off this whole conversation by announcing that Mariana and Armando ran her off the premises with pitchforks and torches, she’s still asking Alma whether she thinks this whole threesome thing might work out. They decide the world is not quite ready yet for Julia’s revolutionary, polyamourous desires. Unless you’re Mormon.

Meanwhile, Mariana is also riding on Julia’s choo-choo train of confusion except she’s on the car marked “WTF” while Julia is perpetually in the one reserved for the Queen of Tergiversation.

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I used to hate the word ‘random.’ You know, when people would say, “That’s random.” I hated it. It made me twitch. But then I started saying it and then I couldn’t stop and then suddenly every other sentence out of my mouth had the word ‘random’ in it. And now that it’s been like 12 years, I think maybe I need a new word.

According to thesaurus.com, here are my options:

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How about promiscuous. That sounds like a good alternative because the word doesn’t have any sexual connotations that might be misconstrued.

Karine just walked by, glanced at my post, and continued on her way while singing, “Ran-dom.”

Me: I’m now promiscuous!

K: That would mean divorce. I’m off to the post office!

Hmm. I’ll have to think on this some more.

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Last night I drank cherry-flavored beer while watching Life Unexpected and Parenthood. I’m not sure if I liked the beer or not. At times it kind of tasted like children’s cough medicine. But I drank it all so I guess I must have liked it. And then I got kind of drunk – or not drunk, but tipsy – because it really doesn’t take much. And then, vividly recalling that one time I was hungover, I decided to drink half a liter of San Pellegrino, because NEVER AGAIN.

That was my evening.

But before all of that, K and I watched Glee (Oh, Brittany S. Pierce, I love you) and The Good Wife. I am so happy that Alicia and Kalinda are back on my TV screen, even though I am having trouble convincing myself that Alicia/Kalinda are never going to happen (because they’re not). But oh hai, Jason Street Scott Porter! Love you long time, but I wish you’d go back to Friday Night Lights where you belong (even though you’ve been gone many seasons). I still miss you. FULL HEARTS, CAN’T LOSE.

Today, there was writing and then more writing. And then I watched Hellcats and wow did they ever murder the subtext. It went kerpoof. Please to bring back? Also, I think the lesbian cheerleader – Patty, I think? – is a mythical creature because I have no idea where she’s supposed to be. But whenever I see D.B. Woodside I want to yell, “HAI PRINCIPAL WOOD!”

I watch too much TV maybe.

Are you a cat?

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Another Tuesday morning brings us last night’s “deleted 5-minute scene” acted out by @JaneRizzoli and @MauraIsles over Twitter.

In this deleted scene, Jane and Maura wake up from yet another sleepover and then have breakfast together. And then they plan what they’ll have for breakfast during future morning-afters. I mean… right?

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Marti/Savannah are my new, subtexty, never-gonna-actually-happen-but-at-least-there’s-fanfic couple. You can find them on the CW’s Hellcats.

My friend Julia sent me this video and I felt compelled to share it.

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“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou

ImageThat quote has nothing at all to do with this entry – in fact, nothing has anything at all to do with this entry, except maybe unicorns – but I like sharing quotes. So there you go.

It’s after 4PM here in lovely Lyon and I am trying to get through my to-do list. This thing here that I’m doing now (some might call it ‘writing a blog post’ while others will think of it more as ‘rambling incoherently in public’) is item #2 (of 7) on my list. So, I’m off to a good start.

I find that I tend to do things in reverse order of importance, which is the opposite of what productivity books advice you to do. I still haven’t finished reading David Allen’s Getting Things Done … but it’s totally on my to-do list.

I think I’ve gotten something like 6 hours of sleep total the past couple of days, so I’m functioning purely on sugar and caffeine. I think this has led to an unintentional exercise in subjective objectivity.

Other stuff on my to-do list includes finishing the Rayne scene I’ve been working on. I am committed to sharing what I have so far with my beta group on Friday. And what I have so far is a barely coherent scene, a scene involving a butterfly-mouse, and another scene where I’m fairly certain I forgot the meaning of characterization. It’s going well. I find, though, that I work better with deadlines. So, we’ll see what I have come Friday.

In other news…

AfterEllen has asked me to write a monthly column covering the lesbisexual world of Spanish-language TV shows, movies, people etc. And I still don’t have a name for this column so I welcome suggestions, preferably by Friday. Gracias!

Speaking of which, if anyone knows of any shows in Spanish with lesbisexual content (besides Las Aparicio, Capadocia, Amar En Tiempos Revueltos, Para Vestir Santos, Hospital Central) currently airing or about to air somewhere in the world, please let me know, either by email or blog comment. I will love you forever in a platonic but fervent sort of way. continue reading…

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Before we start, I’d suggest getting a drink (or two). Maybe, also, do a shot. Unless you’re under age, in which case you should get something non-alcoholic. Modern Family recommends salted chocolate milk and Rizzoli & Isles recommends salted coffee. Salt is the new sugar. Write that down.

Last time on the Julia Confundicio Show… Julia cheated on Mariana with Armando because she couldn’t help herself. As a result, we will now be treated to 40 or so episodes of … wait, let me not get ahead of myself here.

Let’s begin. Episode 61 opens with foreshadowing in the form of the Mexican TV series Julia is starring in. It’s a series within a series, the plot of which mirrors the life and times of its lead actress who is actually a character within another show. Are you following? It’s deep, you guys.

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I know it’s hard to grasp the subtle nuances of this series, but something tells me that we will be treated to a threesome in the near future and that it will involve a curly-haired guy and two brunettes.

DON’T PANIC.

Okay, panic. A little. But stay with me. And keep a towel with you at all times.

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